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Would you go to a baby shower on your birthday?
An old "friend" of mine has gotten married and is having a baby. We were close in high school, but she stabbed me in the back in college, and while we have an amicable relationship now, I can't bring myself to forgive her fully.
As the question asks, the shower for the baby is on my birthday. I was unable to go to her wedding, and I'm worried that if I don't go to this, our somewhat shaky acquaintance will disintegrate again. On the other hand, I kind of feel like she should have not planned it for my birthday, and since I'll be hitting a milestone in my life, I was planning to go out and visit a bar for the first time.
So, really what I'm asking is, if you were in my position, what would you do? If you decided to forgo the occasion, how would you break the news to the hostess?
Any ideas are welcome. Thanks!
Well, I dont think she even was aware it was on your birthday.
If its early in the day, go ahead and go if thats what you want to do. Otherwise, I would go to her house a day or two before and deliver the gift. Explain the issue and the fact you already have plans, Im sure she will understand (Just make it seem as though you cant get out of those plans)
Stay for a little while and chat while you deliver the gift. This is more one on one time than you would get if you went to her baby shower so it could make you closer friends than if you just kind of sat in the back at her shower.
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